I’ve had a lot of time to think these last few months. And I’ve pondered about GGPa. I was so blessed to have this man be a part of my life for 8 years. He was in his late 80’s when I became part of his family, but it wasn’t until his last 3 years that I really put forth that much effort.
You see, I was busy. I had two kids. There was always something more important calling for my attention. All of these things are true. And they are also so very sad.
I was given this amazing gift. Bill. The man who became a grandfather to me, even though he didn’t have to. He became a great grandfather to my children. He loved us. He took my kids for rides on his electric wheelchair.
He stole food from the breakfast cart for us. Because you see, even though he was 92 before I really got to know him, he didn’t care. I was his family. And that meant that you provide. He paid a lot to be in that retirement home. And if he wanted to take an extra nutri-grain bar here and there, no one was going to ask. And even from an electric wheelchair, he was doing all he could to make sure that we had everything he was able to give us. His step-granddaughter. And his step-great-grandchildren.
His generation grew up knowing what it was to not have everything.
And I don’t mean the way we think we have it now. I’m not talking about the lastest THING.
I’m talking about food. Food that you have to either grow or kill yourself. That you had to take care of to feed yourself over the winter.
The clothes that you had needed to be taken care of. There was no Walmart to run out to if you ruined your good clothes.
Manners were something that everyone used. People opened doors for one another. They looked strangers in the eye and smiled. They made room at the dinner table for a friend in need. They could stretch their pennies in ways I can’t even fathom.
I heard some of the stories of his childhood. He had it pretty rough. And yet he still told me many stories with a smile on his face. They didn’t need so much back then. So much stuff.
He told me about all the jobs that he had. He did almost everything that you can imagine. Including fight for my freedom. And he took it all in stride. It wasn’t something that he boasted about. It was just what he did.
When he enlisted, they knew he was an excellent marksman, and they wanted him to be a sniper. He refused.
He became part of the motorcycle brigade instead. And he escorted royalty. But that story has no more importance to him than the fishing he used to do.
He grew up when you took pride in a good day’s work. And you didn’t complain about a full day of work if you ended the day with a full belly.
He had a wife that he loved with every ounce of his being. For the first year I went to see him, he told me every single time that she was gone. And that he was all alone now.
After the second year, I hope he didn’t feel so alone, because then when I walked through that door, he just smiled. He never said he was all alone anymore.
They always said that the most important thing in their marriage was to laugh. They swear that in over 60 years of marriage they never fought. They were on the same side. And rather than say that it would just be easier to start over if something went wrong, they just united against the problem. No talk ofdivorce. No comparing that they weren’t as good as that person’s spouse. It was them against the world. All the way to her last breath. I can only pray to have that in my marriage!
I can’t imagine all that he saw in his lifetime. I can’t imagine 96+ years on this earth. But I do know that I had the privilege of getting to know a man who is part of the last great generation. They fought for freedom. For everyone. Every. Last. One. Of. Us. Not for a certain colour. Not for a certain belief. They fought so that we could have freedom. So that others could be safe. Because 80 years ago, you stood up and did what was right.
Thank you GGPa. And to the last great generation. I hope and pray that my generation can put forth even a fraction of the effort to be like them. And provide for others whatever we can. Let’s make it less about how much stuff we can accumulate, but about how many lives we can change. Let’s fix things that are broken rather than just replacing them. Let us honour them by being the next generation to affect a positive change for the world. And let’s start with our little corner of the world. I tell my kids every day that we were given more than we need so that we can share it with others. Not because we get to brag about it later. But because the generations before us made the world a better place by doing just that.
If you have a prayer request, or would just like to talk, leave a comment below. I would be honored to lift you up in prayer. And have a blessed day.
Don’t count your days, make your days count!